A psychology professor named Arthur Aron ended up demonstrating, almost by accident, that love is not just emotion. It is also a chemical and cognitive process that can be intensified or weakened depending on how we think. He became known for creating 36 questions capable of generating deep connection, but he also identified 6 questions that can dissolve love in about 15 minutes. He called this the De-romanticization Protocol. Here’s how it works. Love is sustained by selective attention. We do